This Is An Ultimate Personality Improvement Guide That Is Carefully Compiled To Boost Your Self Esteem Within A Short Period Of Time.
Before We Continue... If You Have Not Read My First Post On This Very Important Life Changing Topic, I Recommend You To Read It Because It Is A Very Great Post With A Deep Explaination Of Self Esteem That Will Prepare And Open Your Mind To Understand This Very Guide. Click "HERE TO READ IT"
Let's Continue...These Guide Below Will Be Of Great Help To You But You Have To Read Them Carefully And Line By Line.
What Is Self Esteem?
Self Esteem Is The Basic Frame And What Derives And Displays Our Personal Believes About Our Self. Self Esteem Also Controls Of Our Individual Reactions To Our Own selves And To The People Around Us.
And "Because, You Can Not Learn When You Don't Understand" So, This Post Written In A Very Simple And Understandable Language.
The steps Below Will Boost Your Self Esteem And At The Same Time, Improve Your Personality If You Read Them. And Also, Practice Them In Your Daily Life Activities.

1] Always See YOURSELF From The Right Angle

People With Poor Self Esteem Alway See The Entire Aspect Of Their Life From The Nagative Side. They Also Believe That They Can Never Do Anything Right.
And To Boost Your Self Esteem, You Need To Believe That There Are Some Many Things Your Good At. "No Person Is Created The Worse Or The Best Person, We Choose It Individually By Ourselves Through The Way We Interact We Our Selves" So, Find Those Things You Can Do Very Well, Do Them And Appreciate Your Self For Doing Them.
Always See The Positive Things You Can Do, Never Degrade Your Self Or See Your Self As A Failure. Learn From Your Mistakes "Your Never A Failure Untill You Belief Your" Never Punish Your Self For Mistakes You Make.

2] Avoid Nagative And Unsupportive People Into Your LIFE

Try As Much As Possible To Always Be With Positive And Supportive People Who Can Impart Positively Into Your Life, Accept Any Good Comment Or Complement They Make About You. And Avoid Those People That Degrade You Or Make You Feel Empty And Less Important. Always See Your Self As A Normal And Qaulified Person.

3] Yes! Your Not PERFECT, But Your UNIQUE!

"The Reach For Perfection Can Be Painful Because It Is Often Driven By Both Desire To Do Well And A Fear Of The Consequence Of Not Doing Well" A Quote By Monica Ramirez Basco.
People With The Spirit Of Perfectionism Are Never Greatful To Their Ownselves For Any Achievement They Make And They Never Learn From Their Mistakes. Instead, They Quit Or Fall-Out Whenever They Make Mistakes.
One Moment They Succeed, The Other Moment They Quit. This Desire Of Perfection Can Only Distroy Your Personal Values And Help You To Develop Nagative Personal Opinions About Your Self, Which Is Very Painful. So You Have To " Focus In Bringing Out Your Uniqueness Because That Is Your Best." "Don't Be Afraid To Make Mistakes Because It Is An Inevitable In The Part To Success." Never Quit Because Of Your Mistakes Instead, Adjust Yourself When You Mistakes.

4] BE YOUR BEST FRIEND

I Made This Point Second To The Last Because It Is Like A Summary Of All That We Have Discussed So Far. You Can Never Be A True Friend To Any One If Your Not Your Own Best Friend. And Being Your Self Best Friend Means That You Will Learn To Always Forgive Yourself When Make Mistakes,
Accept That Your Not Perfect, That You Have Weaknesses Just Like Any Other Person On Earth, Love Yourself Because "YOU YOURSELF As Much As Anybody In The Entire Universe, Deserves You LOVE And AFFECTION" A Qoute By Gautama Buddha. Make Out Free Time For Your Self Occassonally, To Appreciate And Cheer Your Self Up E.g After A Week Or Somedays Of Work At Office, Home, Garden, etc. Recall Some Of The Past Achievements You Have Made.
Note: Those Achievements May Not Be Very Huge {It Must Not Be About Climbing Mountain Everest}.
It Can Be For E.g: Passing Class Exams, Being A Part Of Sports Team, Saving Money From The Little Income You Earn, Helping Some One To Do His/Her Home-work,etc.
Also, Take Out Time To Relax Your Body And Mind When You Feel Bored Or Tired After Some Work, Lecture, etc.

5.] Apple Can Never Be Orange:

Come To Think Of This Way, How Can You Feel Or What Will You Say To A Friend Or Relative Of Yours Who Is Peeling An Apple And You Ask Him Why He Is Peeling It, And He Seriously Replied "That He Wants The Apple To Become An Orange."
"Amusing Or Stupid" Isn't It?
Because It Is More Impossible Than Impossible Itself.
Then What Do You Think Will Be Of The Apple That Is Being Peeled? "PAIN"
And That Is What Your Are Doing To Yourself When Your Comparing Yourself With Others. Your Created Uniquely (e.g As An Apple) And Instead Of Developing Your Uniqueness, Your Comparing Yourself With (Trying To Be Like) Some Body Else (A Mango Or An Orange).
And You Hope To Succeed??
Hmmmm?
As You Can See It Is A Painful And Self Destructive Habit To Compare Your Life, Yourself And What You Have With Other People's Lives And What They Have.
The Ultimate Reward You Will Definately Get Is "PAIN"
Because You Can not Be The Best Of All. There Will Always Be Someone Or People Who Are Better Than Or Ahead Of You At Something In This World.
Instead, Look At How Far You Have Come, How Far You Have Improved And How You Can Improve More (i.e Comparing Your Present self To Your Past self).
Be A Real You Not Fake A Someone Else! This Is One Awsome Habit That Will Give You A Great Self Motivation And Boost Your Self Esteem To Be Stable And Normal!
Don't Read This Post Only, Also Try As Much As Possible To Practice Them In Your Daily Life Activities And You Will See You Life Changing For Good.
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By An Internationally Acclaimed Personality Development Coach Dr. Joe Rubino Has Help About 2 Millin People World Wide To Regain A Joyful, More Fulfilled And Very Successful Life. By Over-coming Their Low Self Esteem. And I Am Also Recommending It To You Because It Is
A Very Helpful Guide By An International Self Esteem Expert, Easy To Follow,
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Exposed Secret! The 5 Easy To Follow Rules That Will BOOST Your Self Esteem FASTER!
Created at 2017-05-01 17:29:20
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